I asked her on Sunday morning just before we went to help ryan4d2 and ioianthe move.
On Saturday we'd gone to an all day party in NH at her friend and favorite jewelery-maker's house. The party was an excuse to pick up the necklace I'd had made for her. I did the initial design and she did a wonderful job translating that into her own style, which emilythelsayer loves.
The original plan had been to ask her that night, but we got home very late.
For pictures and more details, she's put up a post that you can find here.